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The Secret How To Have Harmony With Your Wife Always:

Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2012 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries Inc

The articles were written to help people and to promote my books, I have no special person in mind. Do not infer anything from the topics. If I wrote “Why People Killed Each Other” This does not mean that, I am saying somebody is trying to kill me or I am trying to kill somebody.

T he Japanese said: “Even no response is another form of responding” Do you know that you can be in the middle of hostility and disengage yourself from it completely? To the point where it has no effect on you. I was traveling through a white community four o clock one morning; when a white man called out to me and say: “Nigger, get out of here” I responded by saying: “Yes sir” And keep going where I was going. He expected me to stop and have a verbal fight with him, until things escalate out of control.

While living in a rent house in Bronx, New York. Many of us share the same apartment, there was a war going on between us, however, the war was not among the men, it was among the women, I was in the thick of it, but do not know what I have said or done, so I shut my mouth and continually going to work, school, and church. One woman was dropping words like rain, raining down abuses, making comments every time she saw me, with no response coming from me, finally I heard a knock on my door, I opened the door, miss pretty woman was standing at the door, she says: “James it you I am talking, it is you I am dropping the word for” I respond by saying: “Yes miss Clard, I know” Then I shut my door and went back to bed.

What I did not know is this: She had the whole place line off with men, hiding all over, so when I attacked her and her scream out, they would come and beat me up. The men told me: “You lucky if you did raise your hand on her you would see a thing or two” But, the truth is this: they are the lucky ones. The same men, when they found out what has happened, they told me: “You are the only one in this house that do not know what was going on here and you are the one almost get into trouble”

I would not get into trouble, I had the best teachers: My grandmother, my father and mother. My grandmother teaches me to know God and how to read people and to stay out of trouble. My father teaches me the art of none verbal conflicts, my mother teaches me the art of herbal medicine, and something more sinister. “You must be able to live and work with an old hog, or contentious person, and never open your mouth, let them win all the fights” My grandmother says: “If you cannot say good about a person, do not say anything” You can win a fight and lose a war, you can win an argument and lose a wife, you can win an argument with your boss and lose the job, you can win a cursing match with a police officer and loose your life.

Mutual Love Of Husband And Wife.

Sirach 25:1 With three things I am delighted, for they are pleasing to the Lord and to men: Harmony among brethren, friendship among neighbors, and the mutual love of husband and wife. Page 794 The New American Bible Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic book publishing company.

You Must Never Get Into A Words Fight With Any Woman:

A certain man’s wife had a sex problem, she had only made love once or twice in six weeks, her husband was quick to point that out to her, what she told him almost cause him to kill her: She told him that she had four children for him, the first one was for his father, the second one was for his brother and the third one was for his cousin, only the last one is his. “So which one of us have no use in bed?” Never ask a woman why she has you on punishment, rationing you.

A Woman Weakness Is What She Hears:

Most of what a woman does to a man is not based upon what she saw, but what she hears. The success of your marriage depends on how gullible your wife is.

Let Peace Posess Your Soul:

Psa_119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.

Philip. 4:7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

True obedience to God's Word will keep any man from being offended. God not only demands that one live free from being offended, but that he offend no man (Matthew 5:29-30; Matthew 13:41; Matthew 18:6-9; James 3:2).

(Compliment to Dakes’s Notes) 1. Permit the peace of God to garrison or keep your heart and mind through Jesus Christ (Phil. 4:7). 2. Renounce all worry; then by prayer, supplication, and thanksgiving, make all requests known to God (Phil. 4:6; James 4:7). 3. Think on right things (Phil. 4:8). 4. Keep mind stayed on God (Isaiah 26:3). 5. Use the weapons of spiritual warfare (2 Cor. 10:4-6). 6. Put on the whole armor of God (Ephes. 6:10-18). 7. Have faith in God (Matthew 6:25-34; Matthew 7:7-11; Matthew 17:20; Matthew 21:22; Mark 11:22-24). 8. Live and walk in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16-26; Romans 6:14-23; Romans 8:1-13). 9. Do not cast away confidence (Hebrews 3:6,12-14; Hebrews 6:11-12; Hebrews 10:19-23,35-39). 10. Cast all your cares upon God (1 Peter 5:7).

You Must never Wash Blame On A Woman:

Especially a woman you intended to bed or one you have already bedded. You the man must always take the blame or finding a way to justify her actions. If you wash blame on a woman, you offended her sons, her husband, her boyfriends, her pastor, and every man in her life. Now you have stirred up a lot of enemies all around you, If you take the blame, you will find out that most of the time the hostilities ends and things go back to normal. Do not take women lightly, women have great influence in a democratic society and they know it, even your own doctor will kill you, and your attorney will sell you out in the woman’s honor. Whenever dealing with women you the man must never think that you hold the handle, sometime it is the blade you hold on to.

Never Pick Fights With Wife’s Family:

Whenever a man married a woman, he has joined her family, he must be the one into submission, let them take the fight to you, but you must never be the one to advance on them. These are now your family, your faith is tied to them, if you cannot get on with them move away to distance places. You the man must never past remarks and get into a finger-pointing contest with wife's family, where you keep on point out their defects. My grandmother teaches me to “Big up the one little goodness that you can find in them”

God Has Given Eight Commands To Husbands:

God has given eight New Testament commands to the husband and eight to the wife. 1Pe_3:7 “Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, (((giving honor unto the wife,))) as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.” Eph_5:33 --; “and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” Everything that the Bible told the husband to do to the wife, it told the wife to do the same to her husband, but in different wording. 1 Pet 3:7 “Husbands Give honor to the wife” Eph 5:33 “Wife reverence husband” Reverence and giving honor is the same thing only different wording.

Ephes. 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; The conation of the Greek word that was used: Mean a doing and not a feeling. How the husband treats the wife and not how you feel about her, dust we can love our enemies, because it is not how we feel about them, but how we actually treated them. I do not have to feel good about a person to give them a drink of water, with a good spirit.

Husband Is Head Of Wife; Wife Is To Guide The House:

1Ti_5:14 I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, (((guide the house,))) give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. “Guide” Mean to direct, lead and steer.

Eph_5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body.

The husband is the head of the wife, but the wife is the one that must govern and guides the house. The husband is the head where provision, and security are concerned. You do not expect the woman to come out and fight the enemies, draw water and chop wood, do you?

1Ti_5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

1.To be head of the wife (Ephes. 5:23). 2.To love their wives as Christ loved the Church (Ephes. 5:25). 3.To love their wives as their own bodies (Ephes. 5:28,33). 4.To nourish or bring up, care for, protect, Ephes. 5:29; Ephes. 6:4; Rev. 12:6) 5.To cherish or to foster, warm in one's bosom, Ephes. 5:29; 1 Thes. 2:7) 6.To be joined as one flesh (Ephes. 5:30-31) 7.To leave their parents for their wives (Ephes. 5:31) 8.To cleave to their wives (Ephes. 5:31; Matthew 19:5)

God Has Given Eight Commands To The Wife:

Titus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

1.To be sober. 1 Tim. 2:9). 2.To love their husbands. 3.To love their children. 4.To be discreet. of sound mind; prudent; moderate; self-controlled. Translated sober (Titus 2:8; 1 Tim. 3:2); temperate (Titus 2:2); discreet (Titus 2:5). 5.To be chaste. Here; 2 Cor. 7:11; 2 Cor. 11:2; Phil. 4:8; 1 Tim. 5:22; James 3:17; 1 Peter 3:2; 1 John 3:3. 6.To be homemakers, caring for and working at home. 7.To be good, virtuous (Titus 2:5). 8.To be obedient to their husbands (Ephes. 5:22,33; Col. 3:18; 1 Peter 3:1-6).

You Should Never Give A Commandment To A Woman:

When you give a command to a woman! To show who is in control, the woman will rebel against the command. If you have given her no command, she has nothing to rebel about. She knows what to do to keep her marriage if she want it, she knows what to do to keep her man from leaving if she want him. If she refuses to cook, cook your own food, if she refused to wash your clothing; wash your own clothing, in-fact she is not a washer-woman, she is a wife.

If She Hate Sex Do Not Point Out Scriptures:

Once again, it is the man’s fault, you should have understand age sex compatability. What age women peak, and what age they started to go down hill, and what age men peak and what age they started to go down hill. You should have looked how the saints married at Bible time. Abraham was ten years older that his wife. There was a reason for this: If you point out scriptures you run the risk of getting her resent the Bible.

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Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him, while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

Do you repent of your sins before God and Man, and do you embraces Jesus as your savior? If the answer is yes! By the power invested in me, by the Church, and by the Holy Ghost. I pronounce you forgiven of your sins. Acts 2:21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

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