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Why Some People Cannot Connect With A Lover.



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By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2009 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Y ears ago I had a virus on my computer name. “White Monkey.” It would just randomly pop up in the middle of my documents, and when I print out a letter it is printed out in the middle of my letter. One day an antivirus program goes throw the computer and dig up about seven hundreds virus, and throw them on my monitors. There were white monkeys, black monkeys, seven brothers and many more viruses on it. As times goes by I begin to miss my “White Monkey” virus which gives me so many headaches and amusement. A relationship is just like that: Everyone of us have our own white monkey virus.

Finding A Common Ground In Your Mate.

Amos 3:3 “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” There is no perfect people, “Why some people cannot seem to connect with anybody” They expected too much perfection out of people. They focus on things like facial attraction, physical appearances and social status, while overlooking all the important issues. If you want a mate that can push, pump, and fling up, and if you find one that can do all that. Is this person employable? Does he or she have what it takes to get and hold employment? Is this person healthy? Is he or she “bipolar, and Schizophrenia” Schizophrenia is a mental disorder that makes it difficult to tell the difference between real and unreal experiences, to think logically, and to have normal emotional responses, and to behave normally in a social setting. “Schizophrenia” is a complex illness. All this can be hidden, and never emerges until you are on your way in the relationship. The person can have moral issues: Such as a family stud mentality. One lady told me that her brother in-law had all her women family and finally he approached her. She told him yes: but if do not do a good job she is going to shoot him. You must reach the place where you can see a piece of gold cover up in ugly appearances. Where you can see potential in people of low estates. The scriptures give us one hint in picking up a good mate. Titus 2:6 Young men likewise exhort to be sober-minded. Titus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

Leave Your Own Baggage Behind.

You and I must leave our own baggages behind, before we try to start relationship. We must forget what our step-father has done to us in childhood. “Forget” Mean to use that experience as a stepping stones, and not to go about thinking all people is like that. If you walk around with your baggage’s no ones will ever want to connect with you.

Can You Submit To This Person?

The bible told the husband to be the head of the wife, and told the wife to rule the house. There are times when husband must submit to wife, as well as wife submits to husband. Do you rate this person enough to submit to them?

1 Tim. 5:14 I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, ((((guide the house,)))) give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. “Guide” Mean: One who shows the way by leading, directing, or advising. The wife is to lead the household. She must make decision and presented them to her husband, so they both can have a say in the matter.

Ephes. 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

1 Peter 5:5 Likewise, you younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisted the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

You Will Need Help From God.

You will need help to see what is hidden in people, because they will be hiding all what you are supposed to know during courtship.

John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.

Daniel 2:47 The king answered unto Daniel, and said, Of a truth it is, that your God is a God of gods, and a Lord of kings, and a revealer of secrets, seeing thou couldst reveal this secret.

You must be in covenant with God, by accepting Jesus as your lord to expect things from God.

Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us

Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

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Disclaimer: I considerd my self not responsible for errors or damages of any kind resulting from access to this Internet resources, or use of the information contained therein. Every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of information presented as factual. However, errors may still exist. Users are directed to re-check facts when considering their use in this article. You follow my advice by your own resolved. By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC