Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2004 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries, Inc
"H hOW TO KNOW WHEN YOUR SPOUCES IS UNFAITHFUL.
Matthew 11:30 (KJV) For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Most people especially people with religious background, do not want to divorce, they want to stay married the longer the better because it looks good in their church communities. However, they might not be happy and even hate the person that thy married to. These will have affairs, sometime even with the pastor of the church. These people are not easily caught. They way you are being treated will ever be the only indication you will get.
A certain man wife was not available to him for sexual intercourse, as he communicates to his friends, one of his coworker told him not to worry. He know where there is a woman selling vagina, she rented an office and posing as a bookkeeper. So the next pay day they both went. On their arrival there was two men in waiting, finally it was his turn to go in, when he went in to see the woman it was his wife. The husband say, this is the reason why you are so weary each night when you came home, and always not in the mood.
Some people are so smart that it will take years to catch them, and if you made it look like you are trying to catch them it will even made it much harder. You have to look for the signs, because there are many signs along the way to indicate to you what is happening.
(1) A DON’T CARE ATTITUDE.
If a person live with you for a while and do not know how you will react under a given situation. Either the person is fools are they just do not care about your feelings. If they do not care about your feelings and needs that is a sign that he she has an alternative. Alternative means that they had somebody on the side.
EXTREMLY COCKY
(2) . When the person is extremely cocky, they have more than they can handle and do not care a dam what you do are say.
(3) MADE NO TIME FOR YOU.
If the person has their work schedule set up in away that thee night when you are at home is the night when they are at work. Try set your schedule to match theirs and watch them move again. If they move it again, this is an indication.
A couple must made time for each other. Time that each person can look foreword to, and prepare for. Even if they both worked two jobs each, they must set aside time for getting together and love making. If and is available and the other is hiding, something is wrong.
(4) IF YOUR SPOUCE IS A FRIEND OF ALL THOSE WHO DISRESPECT YOU.
Bird of one feather flocked together, he she is being bought out, and is only in your life as a spy, and are there to help keep you down. May be he she even got insurance on your life and is there slow poisoning you.
If the pastor of the church like and invite the wife but shun the husband, they two are into something. If you are a member of the church and the pastor is having secret meeting with the wife, they are going together. Good pastor deal with a man and his wife as one, and will never talk business with one alone.
(5) SOURE VAGINA AND CONSTANT INFECTIONS.
A sore vagina and constant infections is another indications. Certain comments, like you being call by other people name while making love. Or having something blame on you that you knows nothing about. The lady friends keep telling you things, especially more than one friend. It could be lie, but it could be also truth. Eat out with coworkers, and cannot come home at certain time. “Nurse party “ Or coworkers party where spouses are not invited. Good people do not go to any party or eat out where their spouse cannot come.
(6) EVERY TWO WEEKS THE RELATIONSHIP GOES DOWN.
This is another indications. One lady told me that, when she did something at the market where she sell, and arrival home she first start to quarrel about something and spoiled the mode for the night. She keep him at bay by faking to be angry, then bring him in when she wanted, by starting to act nice.
(7) CALL THE SPOUCE ON THE JOB.
One lady in Connecticut calls her husband in New York at school to ask him where did he put the soap!! If he can come out of class to pick up the phone, then he is nowhere near by to see that another man is at home.
(8) WHEN MOTHER AND DAUGHTER BAND TOGETHER.
When mother and daughter band together, none can correct the other, they both have secrets for each other. Sometime children caught their parents in stuff and use it to keep the parents under controls.
FIFTY PERCENTS OF THE CHRISTIANS WHOS LIFE MESS UP EACH YEARS DO SO BECAUSE OF BAD MARRIAGE.
Before you get married you must know your calling. Know what God call you to do. Know what office he calls you to occupy, because you will have to choose a mate accordingly to your office. If you are called to the five fold ministries you cannot marry to anybody outside of this ministry, the marriage will never work. A Christians can be unequally yoke with another Christians. If you has the apostleship calling and the gift of helps calling. A mate who does not have those gifts will never understand your motive.
THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY.
1 Cor. 12:28 (KJV) And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues. Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed? 2 Cor. 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
WAIT UNTIL YOU REACH THE PLACE IN GOD WHERE YOU CAN HEAR FROM THE HOLY SPIRIT.
Most of the things that bring Christians down could have been avoided, if there was a way that the Christians could be told are saw the thing coming before it happen. Well there is such a way. “Learning how the Holy Spirit communicate to his people”
John 16:13 (KJV) Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
Every bad thing that happen to me today has it roots in disobedient to the spirit command some thirty years ago. Every good things that happen to me today, happen because I obeyed the Holy Spirit command some thirty years ago. This is called” Walking in the spirit” Or Living in the spirit. All the problems that I had today happen because I disobeyed the Holy Spirit command back then. The fruits of that disobedient just coming in today.
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Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him, while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
Do you repent of your sins before God and Man, and do you embraces Jesus as your savior? If the answer is yes! By the power invested in me, by the Church, and by the Holy Ghost. I pronounce you forgiven of your sins. Acts 2:21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
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