Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries Inc

The purpose of this article: Speaking to men-unborn!

W hen giving historical information to your black children, be careful not to give it in a way that you poison his or her spirit against white people. If you do that, you have cut him or her off from valuable source of help. Everywhere that child goes white people will sense bitterness in the child spirit, and try to avoid him or her. You might ask: Why black child, why not just say children. The teaching that makes a white child comes out good, could be the very thing that cause the black boy child to go bad. It is not an easy job to raise black boy children. Black boy children have one thing on their mind. To get that child's attention, is like putting two mating horses apart. You have to communicate to the child without tone of voice. Communicate without cursing. Communicate without talking down to the child. Explain, so he can understand and know the reason behind your decisions at all times. A child is like a tree that is growing up. Whatsoever you put at that tree root can either grow it or stagnant it. You must consider what you are saying and doing before your children.

Helping Your Black Child To Select Healthy Role Model:

The parents must develop a talking relationship with the child from an early age. You both must be able to converse. This is where movies and fishing trips comes in handy. You want the child to be able to select a good role model . This where the parents will have to teach the child. It is important to know that a bad selection of role model, will lead to bad selections of friends. Bad selection of friends is what leads some child to destruction.

Proverbs 13:20 (KJV) He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Prov 1:10 (NKJV) My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent.

The Mentality Of Blaming It On The White Men!:

Never talk racially negative around your children: You do not want your black son to grow up with this mentality, of blaming it on the white men; do not give your children an excuse to failures. Once a person has an excuse, they will never go around it. Teach them to use alternative: You did not make the grade go to college, therefore, go to a trade school. You do not want to go to trade school, so go to the army. You do not want to go to the army, so start up a small business, but do not sit down blaming it on people. If the bridge is flooded, take a boat, if you cannot get a boat, fly over it.

Stigmatizing Vague Conducts:

For example, we saw black men walking down the road with their underpants showing. The parents must let their children know how ugly, and nasty it look. Why should a man be walking down the roadway with his underpants showing? What could possess a man’s mind to cause him to adopt that prison mentality?

Prov 29:15 (NKJV) The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

Be Aware Of The Black Men Stigma:

You need to let your black child know about the stigma that is placed against black men, but do not do it in a way that you poisoned their spirits. Do not go out into the school system and job market naive. This stigma was leveled against black men from the time of the civil war. “Sexual Predictors” “Gorilla” This was a legal persecutions back then, today people from that era begin to come out and talk. Now we saw some blacks begin to come of death row, for things, they did not do some twenty plus years ago; we are going to see many more. Black men were used as a scapegoat for all the crime committed in the land. On the TV in our time, when a none black commits a crime his name is mentioned, when a black commits a crime his pictures is shown over and over again and again on the tv stations. This is designed to tell the world that black men are the only one is society-making trouble. You need to be aware of this, and find a legal profitable way of making a living.

Quick Money And Free Money:

You need to let the child know that there is nothing free and easy in this world. It is an uphill fight especially for black people. Long term is how the white people do it, and long term is how it is to be done. You are not going to win anything nor find anything. For one person to hit the lotto the whole country must lose.

Teach Your Children To Respect Law Enforcement:

One mistake, one bad concept, and your child could grow up with resentment for law enforcement. The way to avoid the child from growing up hating white law enforcement officers is. Not to talk down, about them before your children. Even if I have something negative to say about white people. I make sure that my children are not listening before I say it. I do not want to poison their concept, so they grow up thinking that all such people are evil. This will cause them to be walking around with ill feelings. People can feel ill will. People can see the resentment in your eyes a mile away. You do not want to set your child up for a fall.

1 Tim. 2:1-3 (KJV) I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; [2] For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. [3] For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;

Teach Your Black Son To Respect Womanhood:

We must teach our black boy child to respect womanhood. Women are not there to serve us. To wash our clothing and cook our food. You have to teach this to your black boy child, because they will grow up with the street doctrines and end up dead. We men think that we are the ones that rules. Do not underestimate the influence of women. I saw a boy insult a woman, five minutes later I saw a policeman beating the boy. The woman came to me and says, “You saw what he got? It is I who command it”

Be Able To Appreciate Others That Are More Talented Than You:

To go up the ladder of success you must be able to zooming in and other people who are more talented than you are, and walk in their shadow. Hating a go-getter will never keep he or she from going ahead. The smart thing to do is to tag along with them. Climb the ladder with them.

Black people are very resentful of other talented blacks. Phil 2:3 (NKJV) Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. If you cannot credit the other person who are more talented than you, and learn to capitalize on his or her talent, you will never go up the ladder of success.

Learning To Welcome Foreigners:

Exodus 23:9 (KJV) Also thou shalt not oppress a stranger: for ye know the heart of a stranger, seeing ye were strangers in the land of Egypt.

Heb 13:2 (NKJV) Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly entertained angels.

Living in the United States for more than thirty, to date. I found that blacks have a secret vendetta for each other. Each group hated the other. Then all the groups hate the foreign blacks. They forget that Marcus Gravy a Jamaican was here, and pave the way for many of the so-call civil right leaders that come along. He was one of the first civil right leaders the black Americans had, which open the eyes and set the trend for those we saw today.