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How To Prevent Your Relationship From Hitting The Curve.
By Dr.James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
A ll the problem that plagues marriages down through the ages is the same things that plague us today. As far back as Genesis chapter four, we saw one man making death threats to his wives.
Gen 4:23-24 (NKJV) Then Lamech said to his wives: "Adah and Zillah, hear my voice; Wives of Lamech, listen to my speech! For I have killed a man for wounding me, Even a young man for hurting me. Gen 4:24If Cain shall be avenged sevenfold, Then Lamech seventy-sevenfold."
Whatsoever, the problem that developed between this man and his two wives, were not revealing in scriptures. If he killed a young man for hurting him, you two better take heed.
Dealing With ill-feelings
How To Approaches Your Mate.
The Worst Thing To Do.
Give Your Mate The Benefits Of The Doubt.
Num 32:23 (NKJV) But if you do not do so, then take note, you have sinned against the Lord; and be sure your sin will find you out.
Wife Must Reverence Husband.
Husband Must Give Honor To Wife.
Computer programmers call this a "loop." There are no clauses in these two verses, that indicates, who must be the first to give in. No beginning and no ending. "My husband must give honor to me or else I will not give reverence to him." Or, if the man should say. "My wife will not reverence me, so I am not giving any honor to her." Sometime it is the love that brings out the reverence, and sometime it is the reverence that brings out the love. To prevent your relationship from hitting the curve, you must follow biblical principles. Even if you cry to Jesus all night long, when day break, he is going to send you back to practice the scriptures.
Jeremiah 23:29 Is not my word like as a fire? saith the Lord; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces?
God has no magic wand to stretch out over our lives. It is His words that will heal our lives.
Psalm 107:20 He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.