How To Deal With Toilet Paper Mouth People
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
n today world; watching ones backs is a natural part of our daily survival routine. However, people who are living in a never, never land, want to pretend that people are nice, at the same time, people are like scorpions, waiting around every corners to capitalized on every naive victims that crawl along.
The Toilet paper mouth people are the same ones that we call “Badmouth” If God blesses you with good looks, talents, and grace. The side effect of these blessing is that you run the risk of falling prey to a toilet paper mouth person. All it takes is one to poison the spirit of other people around you. These can pass on their offense and stirred up the other people like a dog in heat.
In the book the 48 Laws of Power. Page 406. “Sir Walter Raleigh was one of the most brilliant men at the court of Queen Elizabeth of England. He had skills as a scientist, wrote poetry still recognized as among the most beautiful writing of the time, was a proven leader of men, an enterprising entrepreneur, a great sea captain, and on top of all this was a handsome, dashing courtier who charmed his way into becoming one of the queen’s favorites. Whenever he went, however, people blocked his path. Eventually he suffered a terrific fall from grace, leading even to prison and finally the executioner’s axe.”
Psa 5:9 For there is no faithfulness in their mouth; their inward part is wickedness; their throat is an open grave; they flatter with their tongue.
Rom 3:13 Their throat is an open sepulcher; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:
Rom 3:14 Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness:
Be careful Not To Change A Toilet Mouth.
People only progress when they are wiling to make the necessary change; to their attitude and daily lives. When you change people; you cause them to progress. Now! Why should they progress at your expense? You saw some pretty woman, who get a lot of men, but cannot keep one, because of their bad attitude. The day one man beat her up and forces her to bridle her tongue, she end up getting a husband. Because of the change that was beaten into her; she is now profiting from it, at the expense of the man’s prison sentence
How Do You Work Around This Kind.
You cannot work around this kind for long, if you having no game plan. You have to have a plan, to set up shop for yourself. You have to find a way to humor the situations, and watching it rolls off you. You cannot keep running every time you came across a hog mouth person. While working around this kind you must be accustom to watching your backs. You cannot give then any thing to pick at. The way you dress must follow the company dress code. You must remember that every thing you do are say is being monitored by this kind, to use against you later. If you played the game right, you can drive the toilet paper mouth person mad, having nothing bad to say of you.
Now the person has no justifiable reason to vent. If these kind cannot find any defect in your personality to capitalize on, when they went home they vent out on their mate. This is it; you want the toilet mouth person to vent at home. Therefore, you have to remain on your job and play your cards accordingly to company policy and procedure. You are not at work for friendship. Once the money and benefits are ok, you just have to get your backs tufting up. This does not mean you must take beating. To stop the work place needling, you have to jump on it the first day it started. The longer you waits to confront the person are the worst it gets. You do not need to be rude when confronting people. They expect you to be rude, they expect you to blew up, and they expect you to suck up. They do not expecting you to stand up and standing up intelligently. I was in a white neighborhood, when a white man call out to me and say. “ Nigger! Get out” I call out to him and say. “ Yes Sir” That was not what he expected. Do not give any attitude to the toilet mouth people. All the attitude must be coming from them.
Putting A Mask On Your Blessing.
You cannot let these know much about your future plan. Keep them guessing, sent them down the wrong road. Throwing you blessing in their faces is not as mart thing to do. You do not want to make a toilet paper mouth person open their mouth.
Psa 37:32 The wicked watches the righteous, and seeks to kill him.
Psa 37:33 Jehovah will not leave him in his hand, nor allow him to be found guilty when he is judged.
Following Company Policy And Procedures.
The only way to keep “Toilet Paper Mouth” people out of your faces on the job is to follow company policy and procedures. Once you are up to code, they will give you bad looks, and go to hell likes, but cannot directly confront you.
Exercising love And tolerance.
1Pe 2:22 He who did no sin, nor was guile found in His mouth,
1Pe 2:23 who when He was reviled did not revile in return. When He suffered, He did not threaten, but gave Himself up to Him who judges righteously.
Tit 3:2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
Tit 3:3 For we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another.
Tit 3:4 But after that the kindness and love of God our Savior toward man appeared,
Tit 3:5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;
Tit 3:6 Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior;
Tit 3:7 That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV)
For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:7 (KJV)
For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:9 (KJV)
Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.
Romans 5:10 (KJV)
For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
Romans 5:11 (KJV)
And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his
righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye
upon him while he is near:
Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the
unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD,
and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will
The Bearer’s Of The “Mind Sword”
|A bird eye view is given, a voice is heard, a man is enlightened, a soul is saved.