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his article is designed to show the good reasons and the bad reasons. It is also designed to show the man how to turn the table in his favor. But, you must read the whole article. In my estimation, every human beings dream of owning their own home. But, very few of them consider the responsibility of home ownership. For example: Let us look at just the up keeping of a home. If you refused to cut the lawn, insect bread up, then rodent such came to feed on the insects, and the snakes came to feed on the rats. The same thing can be said of a marriage life.
Every woman dreams of getting married. Then rode off into the sunset to live happily ever after.
Few consider the responsibility of that marriage. Few consider the responsibility behind marriage life. Marriage life is hard work. It is like renting a room in your home to a stranger. He she has to use the bathroom and the kitchen. He she has to go and come, and he she cannot entertain their friends at the gate, it is not proper.
What does this have to do with wife using sex to manipulate the marriage? Everything? I spent more than forty years of my life in the Christian faith. As I study and the counsel Christians day after day I found an iceberg of problems hidden that many pastors never saw or ever talking about.
The smallest problem among the Christians women and their husbands, the wife stops having sex as a punishment. To deal with this problem on your own, the first thing to do is go to the pastor of your Church and make a complain. You need to drag this problem out into the open. Do not deal with this problem in secret, the church community needs to know about it, this is a demon, and you need to expose him.
Col 2:15 And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a shew of them openly, triumphing over them in it.
You need to set the stage, that if a divorce is coming you can marry again with a clean conscience. This can be a hormonal problem, for older women, this last of urges is expected, but I am talking about a deliberate, actions, manipulating the marriage. This does not need a long drawn out book, all you need to do is a few things, like rebuking the demons, but above all things, is to drag this problem right before the church community.
In all my years only one man told me that his wife does not behave like that. This happens to be a seven-day Adventist Christian. I ask him to tell me the secret to his success. He said “he does everything his wife wants him to do”
THE SCRIPTURES ENCOURAGE BELIEVERS TO MARY IF THEY CANNOT HAVE SELF CONTROL.
1 Cor. 7:9 (Living Bible) But if you can't control yourselves, go ahead and marry. It is better to marry than to burn with lust.
THE SCRIPTURES ESTABLISH THE RULE THAT MUST GOVERN THE MARRIAGE BED.
1 Cor. 7:1-6 (KJV) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. [5] Defraud not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. [6] But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
WHEN THESE RULES ARE BROKEN FOR SELFISH REASONS. THERE WILL BE NO WINNER BUT SATAN.
1 Kings 13:11-14 (KJV) Now there dwelt an old prophet in Bethel; and his sons came and told him all the works that the man of God had done that day in Bethel: the words which he had spoken unto the king, them they told also to their father. [12] And their father said unto them, What way went he? For his sons had seen what way the man of God went, which came from Judah. [13] And he said unto his sons, Saddle me the ass. So they saddled him the ass: and he rode thereon, [14] And went after the man of God, and found him sitting under an oak: and he said unto him, Art thou the man of God that camest from Judah? And he said, I am.
WHY WIVES SAY THEY REFUSES TO HAVE SEX.
It is important to know that it is every time a female refuses sex to her husband that her reason is bad. Sometimes there are legitimate reasons. Such as, she is being overworked, Sickness, menstrual cycle is on, or estrogen deficiency. Also, sometime she is just in the. One woman told me she refused her husband because in two second he is finished and cannot finish what he started. Another woman told me that the man refuses to go into the birth canal, but only want to go into her anal cavity. She continues to say he is a “Dung picker”
COMMON PRACTICE IN CHRISTIAN CIRCLE.
1 Cor. 7:5 (NASB-U) Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Even in the time of the apostles, this was a common practice among Christian’s women.
THE REASON WHY CHRISTIANS WIVES CHOOSE THIS COURSE OF ACTION.
1 Tim. 3:2 (KJV) A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
1 Tim. 3:12 (KJV) Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Titus 1:6 (KJV) If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children accused of riot or unruly.
The phrase “One wife” is used three times in the scriptures. One wife for bishop, one wife for deacon and anybody that want to use the office of deacon or bishop must consider one wife only. Bear in mind that during the time of the apostle’s polygamy was the thing of the day. The entire Christian religion adopts the one wife doctrines for everyone who wants to marry. The Christian wife knows that her stand supreme in the man’s life and he is only legal if he get it from her. But, what about when she refuses him for selfish reason?
HOW TO TURN THE TABLE ON HER.
Once the wife takes up this course of actions the marriage is over. She vacant the marriage. The man is free to get somebody else. The problem is, how is the man going to prove what is happening to him to the judges? He cannot.
DEALING WITH A WOMAN.
A woman will never use a weapon that is not effective. If she found out that, what she is doing is working, she will never change it. However, some of the time the wife is not aware, that she is doing this, if Satan and his demons are behind it. Anything the woman is doing it is the same thing you the man must do. If she refuses you, stop pushing yourself on her. Stop acting like you want sex. Never give a woman the idea that you are sold out to sex. Or your salvation depends on her. Regardless of what's happening the man better get ready to find himself a new wife. Because, this action never really stops, until its end in the divorce court.
You might say. “The marriage is going to break up like that preacher, ” I want to tell you it is already broken. Every action will produce a counter reaction. In a situation like that, nobody win. It cannot continue like that for sure. What about your need? A woman will disregard a tool until she has another one. How is she getting her need met? Never give a woman the idea that you are sold out to sex. Many Christian’s men do not have the faintest idea that, that tongues talking Christians, wives sometime have two and three men right there in the church. And another two on the job.
For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.
1 Cor. 14:40 Let all things be done decently and in order.
The church has many things wrong, such as what filled with the Holy Spirit means, and many pastors know it, but are afraid to challenge it.
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Yeshua Elohim (Jesus) Calling To Help You Today
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV)
For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:7 (KJV)
For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:9 (KJV)
Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.
Romans 5:10 (KJV)
For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
Romans 5:11 (KJV)
And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his
righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye
upon him, while he is near:
Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the
unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD,
and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will
abundantly pardon.
Do you repent of your sins before God and Man, and do you embraces Jesus as your savior? If the answer is yes! By the power invested in me, by the Church, and by the Holy Ghost. I pronounce you forgiven of your sins. Acts 2:21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved. Romans 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
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