Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries Inc

The purpose of this article: Speaking to men-unborn! I had been writing for ages, and have no special person in mind!

M any women have been carried down and carried away by unscrupulous men who take them for everything they got. It is hard to say no to a man that make financial requests from a woman, especially if he satisfied her In bed. If you are trying to kill a snake, you must first know what kind of snake you are dealing with. If it is one that spits the venom, there is a different way to approach this one. The man that is in the relationship for financial support is not going to stay if you cannot give him money, you must know how much you can give out. The man that is in the relationship for sex is not going to stay, if you have a problem with that kind of things. Now I am not telling readers what kind of relationship to settle for, I am only making you aware that whenever you planned to get involved romantically with a man, it is quite important to know what kind of relationship he is welling to walk into.

The Revengeful Man:

A lot of men have been hurt in a previous relationship, and vowed to make the other women that they get, paid for it. Therefore to avoid falling for this “damage goods,” you will need to know, something about men. Before you get into any relationship you need to be able to identify where that man has been and what he been through. Failure to know the kind of man you are getting involved with could cost you your life. One of the most dangerous men to get involved with is the “ Damage Goods.” Men that women bashed around, and the man is now angry and having pockets and purse full of revenge. One woman told me she drew out $10.000 Us. Out of her husband’s account and dump him. The next woman that came into his life and under his knife is going to pay for wagon and horses. Whenever a man got hurt by a woman it was always bad, because the woman prevents the man from venting, by calling up all the people in his circle, and tipped them off with her side of the story and told them, he is going to call, and when he calls do not listen to him. This makes the man angrier at women in general, because he cannot get any one to listen to his problems. When a man is a damage goods, it will show up in his mannerism. Damage goods men treat women like a piece of meat.

The Mama’s Man:

Men can be classified into about five groups: We have the “Mama’s man.” This group wants a woman to do everything for him like his mother always done. To deal with a Mama’s man, he must be offering you the woman some kind of service, that is worth your time. For example, if he is a good lover in bed and that means something to you, then you can put up with this man, because you are getting something back from him in a way that benefits you.

The Man For Hire:

There is another group we call them, “Man For Hire.” There is another name for this man. “The gold digger,” We also call him the business man. We also called this one: “The booty call person.” Sex and relationship to him is a business. In a business is not what you deserve you get, it is what you negotiate for, so negotiate well!. This man is selling his service, and he will go to the highest bidder, he is in love with you because you are paying him to be in love. If his service mean something to you, just use his service, and do not act as if you own him, because you do not, he is everybody’s man, at least who can pay for his service. Even a three hundred pound woman can get this man; you only need to carry yourself clean. If you are going to give this man a ride in your car, it must be clean also. If he carries himself clean and dressed, that is what you have to do. If he takes care of himself, and dental that is what you have to do.

The Sexual Orientated Man:

Woman love to put on an act, well you cannot act and talk like sex mean nothing to you and attracted this kind of man. Since he sensed that you have a problem where sex is, concerned he cut and run. You would not even see him go. The Bible Speaks about the natural use of the women. You cannot make a sexual orientated man think you loose your natural uses, by the way you talk and act, and expect to draw him into a relationship.

Romans 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly,------.

The Settling Down Man:

We have the, “Family Church Type Of Man,” This man wants a wife to set up a family, settle down in the community, and raise a family. This is not a man to play games with; he can easily get hurt, because he is in the relationship with his heart. To deal with this man, you must bring the bible to life in your life. Not only mouth talk: some people talk good around you but are the utmost of everything they say.

You Must Pattern Holy Women, See How They Act And Apply It To Your Life:

1 Peter 3:1-7 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; [2] While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. [3] Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; [4] But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. [5] For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: [6] Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. [7] Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

You Cannot Spites And Rationing Him And Expect Him To Behave:

1 Cor. 7:1-5 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. [3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. [4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. [5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

If this man is not getting any bed act from his woman, he will use it as an excuse to go into the street.

How To Know When The Man Come For Money:

If he is borrowing more than enough from to buy food and gas to put in his car to go to work, he comes to leach off you. If he want more than a tank of gas, or a basket of food, he comes to leach off you. Once he start talking about second mortgate on you house, until his income tax money came in, let him go to a bank. Anytime I lend certain people money is befcsue I do not want to see them again. I man came to borrow money from me, and I do not want to see him again so I lend him the money. And I never saw him again, whenever he saw me he is hiding and me start to hide also.