Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries, Inc

T The Important Secrets That The Church Did Not Teach To Dealing With Hate Mongers. Our Lord teaches that in this world we will have tribulations, and we will have people that hate us. Anybody can talk. However, dealing with hate mongers is where the true strength of character comes in. “This is where the rubber hit the road.” While working in Jacksonville, Florida, at certain company: It was lunchtime; I went and buy my lunch. One of my coworkers; sits down right over me, and asks for a part of my lunch. I divide the lunch right down the middle and share it with him. He took it straight to the garbage bin. Hate mongers, hate to see God’s people eat food, breed fresh air, drive good cars, live in good houses, hold good jobs, get an education, having working marriage, and good children. They cannot stand that. They will even come over to your home and pour out their distress, which in some cases is a fake, to get supplies for you to go dump, or sell it for cigarette money. You must be able to feel hate, as it is being poured out of people, you must see it in their eyes, hear it in their sarcasm. Do not think because you are good it mean anything to people. That is one of the reasons why they hate you and me.

2Ti 3:3  Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 

Pro 4:14  Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.  Pro 4:15  Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away.  Pro 4:16  For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall. 

Understanding Hate Mongers Background.

A hate monger is a person that has been hurt in the pass: let down, used up, pissed on, pissed in, chewed up and spit out. This person has pocket and purse full of aggression going around with. Some of them are gone so bad that not even humor or good music can cheer them up.

Hate Mongers Are In Pain:

One hate monger was a patient in the hospital where I worked. After a while everybody sucked the hate for him and directed it back toward him. He screamed out. “Do you know what my father did to me”“My own father cut me with knife” “he cut me with a knife, do you know what I have been through?” Another hate monger said. “ My father raped me since I was ten years old, right up until I was eighteen years old” One woman I work with was a hate monger. One day she spilled her gut and told me. Quote. “My father raped me” Now I confound him and he denied everything and said I am mad” Hate mongers are in pain. Learn to forgive and love them.

Intercept Hate Mongers Attitude.

For example: You trying to ride the public bus, a hate monger saw you coming and assumed that you are going to sit beside them, and they do not want that. There are times when you need to stand up to them and sit anyway. But, the best bet is to pass them by, and avoided to sit beside them. I will be using strong words that betrayed the conation I am trying to convey. You do not want this person feel that you hate them, are returning hates for hate. However, sometimes they have a communicable disease, along with an attitude. Sometime they are demons possessed. Some of them have ticks, chinks, crab lice and dog fleas which will climb on you. I am writing from personal experience. If you are getting a nonverbal message from somebody saying. “Stay the hell away from me.” By all mean stay away. However, this does not mean that you must return a nonverbal hate, or a body language hate. Just moves on and pretended not to see their actions.

Hate Mongers Problem Is That They Cannot Forgive

Real strength is not to bash somebody's head in. Real strength is not to get even, every time. If your life and property are not threatened, learn to walk away. Real strength knows when to walk away, and to leave the hate monger alive to torment himself or herself. There comes a time when you have to fight back, answer back and kick back. Because, some hate mongers are counting on you not defending yourself. They are seeking cheap victory. Anytime you respond to a hate monger it must be a surprise bad hit. It must not be a continues responding.

Do Not Be Too Quick To Reply To A Hate Monger.

Pro 26:4 Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, lest you also be like him.

Pro 26:5 Answer a fool according to his foolishness, so that he may not be wise in his own eyes.

Pro 15:1  A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. 

There comes a time when you must smash a hate monger. However, most of the time you have to let him or her continues and show up themselves. Let them show others what they made up off. If you keep responding to a hatemonger, you lose momentum. They controlled you by letting you keep responding. You respond by not responded.

Do Not Let Hate Mongers Control Your Emotions by what they say and do.

Do not bring up a railing accusation, when dealing with sinners. Do not pad what happen, and add many things, so it can look bad on him or her. It will only prove that you hate them, and are glad for the misunderstanding to come down hard on them.

St Jude_1:9  Yet Michael the archangel, when contending with the devil he disputed about the body of Moses, durst not bring against him a railing accusation, but said, The Lord rebuke thee.

St Luke 11:53  And as he said these things unto them, the scribes and the Pharisees began to urge him vehemently, and to provoke him to speak of many things: St. Luke 11:54  Laying wait for him, and seeking to catch something out of his mouth, that they might accuse him.

The Japanese said. “Even no responding is a form of responding" Sometime no respond mean “go to hell” Sometime no respond mean “You do not worth replying to” you do not cut the cake, you do not have the lift, you only have one stick”

The point in Proverbs 26:4-5 is that you cannot reason with a fool, because you would have to reason with him on his own level and this would force you to become a fool yourself. If you don't answer him according to his folly, he thinks he is as wise as you are. If you do answer according to his own folly, he thinks you are a fool as he is, so your reasoning is defeated. The only hope in such a case is the rod of Proverbs 26:3.

2 Kings 18:36 (KJV) But the people held their peace, and answered him not a word: for the king's commandment was, saying, Answer him not.

Luke 23:8-9 (KJV) And when Herod saw Jesus, he was exceeding glad: for he was desirous to see him of a long season, because he had heard many things of him; and he hoped to have seen some miracle done by him. [9] Then he questioned with him in many words; but he answered him nothing.

Do Not Open The Letter Coming From An Hate Monger

Hate mongers are so full of hate that most of what he or she is saying is without reasons and full of poison. One of my in-laws, I opened no letter coming from that person. “Return to sender” Since I saw the name; I know it is not good. Some email I do not read. It is designed to poison and upset your spirit. If the person or things cannot alleviate my stresses and help with my burdens. I do not want to read it, nor hear it, go away from me. Sometime you have to drag the old dog till it died. This might not work with every hate mongers. Sometime you must just stop responding to an hate monger. “Just left the old car in the street”

Rom 3:13 "Their throat is an open grave, with their tongues they have used deceit, the poison of asps is under their lips; Rom 3:14 whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness;" Rom 3:15 "their feet are swift to shed blood; Rom 3:16 destruction and misery are in their way, Rom 3:17 and the way of peace they did not know." Rom 3:18 "There is no fear of God before their eyes."